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Facing Failure

by Eva 8 Comments

I recently learned, the hard way, that sometimes we just don't reach goals that are incredibly important. What do you do when facing failure?

I recently got some difficult news and have been thinking about how I would tell you all about what has happened. As far as problems go it isn’t the end of the world but it has a significant impact on my life this year.

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My plan for my senior year was to continue with dual enrollment. Dual enrollment has been a great experience for me this last year. I had to work hard but I did well in all of my classes and made a lot of new friends. I have been so excited to get started with classes this semester. One big plus to dual enrollment is the money it saves! We have saved well over $1,000 dollars just this past year in the classes I took through the program. Tuition is free and we only had to pay for the books!

However, that won’t be happening.

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This is kinda how I feel.

My SAT scores in math are really bad. As in, actually very low. So low in fact that the community college won’t let me continue taking any classes. I am so disappointed. It’s hard not to feel stupid when you study, work hard, and still fail at something that really matters for your future.

It’s also a little embarrassing.

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I guess it could be worse. I could be this dude.

I know that my value and worth as a human being is not related to one portion of a test and I know that I’m not a dumb person. And yet it stings. I tried my best and didn’t make it. I have my senior year to work hard and bring my score up but now I’m a little bit nervous that I won’t be able to bring it up and my score will prevent me from getting into the respiratory therapy program that I want to join.

I have learned a little bit about myself in the last few weeks as I learned that my senior year won’t be anything like I expected:

1 – Facing failure in life is really hard

2 – My value is not based on a test score

3 – I cannot just give up and go sit in a corner because things aren’t going my way

4 – There’s always a plan b (or c or d or whatever)

5 – As a person of faith I actually believe that God has a better and different plan for my life this year than I had

6 – Standardized tests are from the devil

7 – I am going to have to buckle down and work really hard in math. Have I mentioned that I despise math?

8 – The world is still spinning

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Okay, this is just funny!

As I have planned out my dual enrollment years it never occurred to me that I might not be able to participate in the program the second year. I understand that they have to have requirements but I will admit that it’s been hard to have a 4.0 in all of my college classes and be told that I’m not allowed to continue because of the score on one test.

I recently learned, the hard way, that sometimes we just don't reach goals that are incredibly important. What do you do when facing failure?

I have cried quite a few tears over this whole situation but I am determined to make the most of my senior year and improve my score on the SAT the next time I take it. Mom and I have come up with a plan that will allow me to put some extra time into test prep, get all my other classes done, and still have time for working on what I love to do – TeensGotCents!

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Of all the failure quotes and memes out there this one is my favorite!

Sometimes things are just hard and you have to keep going even when all you really want to do is sit on the couch with your own tub of cookie dough ice cream and watch ‘Say Yes To The Dress’ on Netflix for the rest of your life. What do you do when you face failure in your life? Do you take some time to regroup or just plunge ahead into the next opportunity?

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Comments

  1. Ashley

    September 3, 2014 at 8:49 pm

    Love this post Eva! Very insightful. And don’t let those standardized tests get you down. Random question, but are you able to swap the SAT for the ACT? I was never very strong at math so my SAT scores weren’t great but I took the ACT and did much better. Not sure if that’s an option for you, but if it is you might want to check it out! 🙂

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    • Eva

      September 7, 2014 at 3:48 pm

      Thanks Ashley. I did do a little better on the ACT but not quite good enough. I’m taking a class this year that is supposed to help me specifically with math!

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  2. Simon

    September 6, 2014 at 11:24 am

    Sorry things didn’t work out the way you had planned. Life tends to throw us curve-balls from time to time. And I think you are taking it in the right stride. You are an intelligent lady and if you working hard on the test…things will work out.
    How do I deal with my own setbacks? Step back, review what I did, figure out my mistakes and then give it my best shot.
    All the best

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    • Eva

      September 7, 2014 at 3:50 pm

      That’s exactly what I’m doing. I’m taking an SAT class this semester and taking another math class that is specific to standardized testing. Hopefully that will do the trick when I take the class again in the spring. Thanks so much for stopping by and for the encouragement!

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  3. Geary .E

    May 7, 2018 at 2:10 pm

    Good advice, especially for me who just took the SAT and has to anxiously wait for my grade. It inspires me that you don’t let that low math score weaken you. Oh, and follow my blog at alliseverything892198203.wordpress.com.

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    • Eva

      May 16, 2018 at 5:53 pm

      Thanks so much! I will check it out!

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Welcome to TeensGotCents, my name is Eva Baker and I founded this site when I was sixteen. I'm a complete money nerd and I love helping teens learn how money works. Also, I watch too much Netflix. Although I still have a lot to learn about personal finance I hope you will use my successes and failures to help reach your own goals whether you want to go to college debt free, get a part time job, work on a fun DIY project that will save you money or just read about ways you can learn to manage your money well as a teen. So glad you're here! Read more about my story here.

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